<p>The term 'Emotional Hoarding' seems to have slipped into our vocabulary. It is applied to those who never let go of any slight in the past.<br> <br>However, the issue is not just the person wallowing in his pity, but his attempt to blame and castigate and punish those he finds 'guilty' of causing his failure.<br> <br>He may be a victim, in some senses, but is trying to make others his victim.</p>...